We all have demons that, like any uninvited guest, take up too much of our time. In an effort to lessen the effect our own demons have on us we turn to the activity of talking about how much more awful the demons of others are.
"I may drink myself dumb, but I am not doing anything illegal."
"I may yell at my spouse, but I am not hitting them."
"I may engage in observing pornography, but I am not cheating on my spouse."
"I may gossip, but it is only to my close friends"
"I am not perfect, but I am better than that person(s)."
Whatever the demons are we all can choose to live with them or work to defeat them. If you are looking to defeat a demon in your life, expose your false self, adknowledge where you are not doing so well, etc. then consider the advice from John the Dwarf:
“If a king wanted to take possession of his enemy’s city, he would begin by cutting off the water and the food, so his enemies, dying of hunger, would submit to him. It is the same with the passions of the flesh: If a person goes about fasting and hungry, the enemies of his soul grow weak.”