Little drummer boy
Little Drummer Boy is my favorite Christmas song. I know that it is not liturgically correct in that the song puts the drummer boy at the center of the action and not the Christ, however I still love the response the boy has to the child. There is something simply elegant to have anyone bring their simple gifts to the betterment of humanity - even if it is just drumming ever so humbly.
This song speaks to my missional theology in that it is good to worship, however if that worship does not lead to action and response, then the worship is hollow. This boy brings his gifts onto the scene as a response to the Christ. So to are Christians to bring our gifts in response to what God has and is doing in the world.
In honor of the drummer boy, I submit to you some drumming via the interwebs.
Personal not private
It is important to Protestant theology that we talk about having a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. This phrase has been used to beat people over the head. The phrase "personal relationship with Jesus Christ" is a red flag or a deal breaker for some people who hear it are instantly turned off to further conversation.
The idea of a personal relationship with Jesus is, for me, just a way of saying that we think knowing Jesus is a wonderful thing and spending time with the message of Jesus and the way of Jesus leads to wholeness and healing.
It is worth noting that a personal relationship with Jesus is not the same as a private relationship with Jesus.
To be as simple as I can be on this, personal is collective while private is individual.
Many have personal time to take off from work (communal), but how that time is spent specifically private (individual).
We all have personal space (communal) but everyone has private understanding of how close to to close (individual).
A personal relationship with Jesus means that you are involved in a relationship which millions of people have engaged in. A personal relationship leads people to engage the world around us. A personal relationship with Jesus means that we go into the world (communal). Personal relationship with Jesus, by definition, is communal.
When something is personal we are pursuing a quest that address the goals of others. Personal goals are goals that others can connect with.
I have a personal goal for peace, however for peace to happen it requires other people.
Private goals however are just that, private. They are individual goals that require no other persons.
I have a personal goal to write in this blog regularly. I have a private goal to paint some of my Warhammer miniatures.
Personal is not private.
The idea of a personal relationship with Jesus is, for me, just a way of saying that we think knowing Jesus is a wonderful thing and spending time with the message of Jesus and the way of Jesus leads to wholeness and healing.
| This would be an example of a PRIVATE space invader |
To be as simple as I can be on this, personal is collective while private is individual.
Many have personal time to take off from work (communal), but how that time is spent specifically private (individual).
We all have personal space (communal) but everyone has private understanding of how close to to close (individual).
A personal relationship with Jesus means that you are involved in a relationship which millions of people have engaged in. A personal relationship leads people to engage the world around us. A personal relationship with Jesus means that we go into the world (communal). Personal relationship with Jesus, by definition, is communal.
When something is personal we are pursuing a quest that address the goals of others. Personal goals are goals that others can connect with.
I have a personal goal for peace, however for peace to happen it requires other people.
Private goals however are just that, private. They are individual goals that require no other persons.
I have a personal goal to write in this blog regularly. I have a private goal to paint some of my Warhammer miniatures.
Personal is not private.
Kids and CEO's fail the marshmallow test
You may have seen this little test before, I cannot recall if I posted it or not. If you have seen it then feel free to move along the post. If not, take the three minutes.
So I laugh at this as I watch the kids struggle with the "choice" in part because it is a silly choice, but mostly because I see this as a rather easy choice. Logically it makes sense and is almost a 'no brainer' to just wait for that second marshmallow. You double your marshmallowly-goodness.
Any grown person would know this to be the case. I laugh because I think that this test would not "work" on adults. Adults would wait. Adults are rational. Adults understand the significant increase of marshmallow by waiting just a bit.
And then this little gem comes into my world and I am flabbergasted. Essentially someone created a marshmallow test for adults. And not just any adults. The adults who are calling the shots at some of the largest companies in the world. And guess what? They were not interested in more marshmallowly-goodness.
At least they were not willing to wait for it.
As reported by GOOD in this post the researchers, "found that the majority of FTSE-100 and 250 executives (those running the largest companies in the world) would choose an investment with a low return option if they could get it sooner (£250,000, or about $390,000, tomorrow) rather than waiting for a high return later (£450,000, or about $706,320, in three years). That means that your investment advisor might give up £200,000 of profit if they had to wait three years to get it."
The researchers called this "short-termism".
So while I laugh at the kids who struggle with what seems to be a no-brainer of a question, I am humbled by the fact that even sophisticated, educated, developed, and highly evolved human adults (read: people like you and me) are all tempted at that one marshmallow even with the promise of two in a little while.
For more reading on self-control, delayed gratification and short-termism - this 2009 New Yorker article is great.
For a final treat, check out how well these dogs are trained at delaying their gratification.
So I laugh at this as I watch the kids struggle with the "choice" in part because it is a silly choice, but mostly because I see this as a rather easy choice. Logically it makes sense and is almost a 'no brainer' to just wait for that second marshmallow. You double your marshmallowly-goodness.
Any grown person would know this to be the case. I laugh because I think that this test would not "work" on adults. Adults would wait. Adults are rational. Adults understand the significant increase of marshmallow by waiting just a bit.
And then this little gem comes into my world and I am flabbergasted. Essentially someone created a marshmallow test for adults. And not just any adults. The adults who are calling the shots at some of the largest companies in the world. And guess what? They were not interested in more marshmallowly-goodness.
At least they were not willing to wait for it.
As reported by GOOD in this post the researchers, "found that the majority of FTSE-100 and 250 executives (those running the largest companies in the world) would choose an investment with a low return option if they could get it sooner (£250,000, or about $390,000, tomorrow) rather than waiting for a high return later (£450,000, or about $706,320, in three years). That means that your investment advisor might give up £200,000 of profit if they had to wait three years to get it."
The researchers called this "short-termism".
So while I laugh at the kids who struggle with what seems to be a no-brainer of a question, I am humbled by the fact that even sophisticated, educated, developed, and highly evolved human adults (read: people like you and me) are all tempted at that one marshmallow even with the promise of two in a little while.
For more reading on self-control, delayed gratification and short-termism - this 2009 New Yorker article is great.
For a final treat, check out how well these dogs are trained at delaying their gratification.
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